Tan Khuan Chong ..
is time 2 study jor...
dun play play again le..
this it what i can tell u for now....
since i aldy gv up force u study ...
but i still can remind u 1...
now ...exam was coming soon..
this u also knw that ....
i never feel that u will scare for it...
but i juz notice that u r very worry about it ...
but i still can help u..
since v still brother ...
any problem u face during ur revision ..
u can ask me help ....
if can ...better tell me as fast as possible ...
but something i dun wan it happen ....
i scare it will happen soon ....
so ..hope u good luck in exam ..
n all my friend also same ..
good luck in ur exam ...
Thursday, April 8, 2010
Saturday, April 3, 2010
人生中有了友谊
人生中有了友谊，就不会感到孤单，日子也会变得丰富多彩。友谊宛如一潭清泉，从那里可以汲取到生命的浆液。用我们的心去经营吧！
太阳出来了，阳光透过玻璃窗，把红红亮亮的光打在雪白的墙壁上。我静静地坐着，听着身边的人群谈论着某个人的好。我牵动了一下嘴，想到隔着距离看人，总不会完全看清那个人的缺点和错误，如梦中的完美偶像，任自己着色。可是真正相处时，也难免会有磨擦，不是吗？
我和两个朋友曾被称为“陈家三人行”，然而谁又想到“三人行”中的我们，也曾出现过不愉快的状况。谁也不知道是如何开始的，在我们眼中的对方不再如以往完美。于是，看对方的眼神中的欣赏也渐渐褪去。每一次的相聚，总是沉默地开始，默默的离去，没有了往日快乐的气氛。我们都在思考：我们到底怎么了？
我怀念以前曾经的快乐，从心底感到那份快乐的真实。有一天我终于明白：我们都是凡人，却把对方看得过于完美。这使得我们容不得对方的一点点缺憾。于是，当别人的缺点错误出现时，完美便不再，甚至接近了空白。一时的视线迷蒙，掩去了所有的美，友谊不再透明，多傻呀！
有一位老师告诉我：周国平在《爱与孤独》中说：“好的爱情有韧性，拉得开却又扯不断。相爱却不相互约束对方，这是他们对爱情有信心的表现。谁也不限定谁，到头来谁也离不开谁才是真爱。”我想友情也应如此，任朋友最真性的流露和表现，不刻意去要求对方，把友谊建立在真性的交流上。不为自己粉饰缺点错误，让朋友接受自己优秀一面的同时，也看到自己的缺点错误。这样的友谊，才真正值得珍惜。
去年的今天，我们是聚在一起，相约去老地方“MCD”。一正桌都是好朋友，有说有笑，大家为了考试在熬夜，都很辛苦的付出，不是吗？相约在一起看似很简单，却难以开口。而这样的情形正如同我们，成熟了！我们彼此用崭新的眼光打量对方，我们的手紧紧握在一起。我们终于明白：当“朋友”还是一个名词时，只是一个美丽却没有内容的字眼；而当它变为一个动词存在时，则代表了一份理解、一份体谅、一份包容。
太阳出来了，阳光透过玻璃窗，把红红亮亮的光打在雪白的墙壁上。我静静地坐着，听着身边的人群谈论着某个人的好。我牵动了一下嘴，想到隔着距离看人，总不会完全看清那个人的缺点和错误，如梦中的完美偶像，任自己着色。可是真正相处时，也难免会有磨擦，不是吗？
我和两个朋友曾被称为“陈家三人行”，然而谁又想到“三人行”中的我们，也曾出现过不愉快的状况。谁也不知道是如何开始的，在我们眼中的对方不再如以往完美。于是，看对方的眼神中的欣赏也渐渐褪去。每一次的相聚，总是沉默地开始，默默的离去，没有了往日快乐的气氛。我们都在思考：我们到底怎么了？
我怀念以前曾经的快乐，从心底感到那份快乐的真实。有一天我终于明白：我们都是凡人，却把对方看得过于完美。这使得我们容不得对方的一点点缺憾。于是，当别人的缺点错误出现时，完美便不再，甚至接近了空白。一时的视线迷蒙，掩去了所有的美，友谊不再透明，多傻呀！
有一位老师告诉我：周国平在《爱与孤独》中说：“好的爱情有韧性，拉得开却又扯不断。相爱却不相互约束对方，这是他们对爱情有信心的表现。谁也不限定谁，到头来谁也离不开谁才是真爱。”我想友情也应如此，任朋友最真性的流露和表现，不刻意去要求对方，把友谊建立在真性的交流上。不为自己粉饰缺点错误，让朋友接受自己优秀一面的同时，也看到自己的缺点错误。这样的友谊，才真正值得珍惜。
去年的今天，我们是聚在一起，相约去老地方“MCD”。一正桌都是好朋友，有说有笑，大家为了考试在熬夜，都很辛苦的付出，不是吗？相约在一起看似很简单，却难以开口。而这样的情形正如同我们，成熟了！我们彼此用崭新的眼光打量对方，我们的手紧紧握在一起。我们终于明白：当“朋友”还是一个名词时，只是一个美丽却没有内容的字眼；而当它变为一个动词存在时，则代表了一份理解、一份体谅、一份包容。
普通的朋友与真正的朋友
一个普通的朋友从未看过你哭泣。
一个真正的朋友有双肩让你的泪水湿尽。
一个普通的朋友不知道你父母的姓氏
一个真正的朋友有他们的电话在通讯簿上。
一个普通的朋友会带瓶葡萄酒参加你的派对。
一个真正的朋友会早点来帮你准备,为了帮你打扫而晚点走。
一个普通的朋友讨厌你在他睡了后打来。
一个真正的朋友会问为什么现在才打来。
一个普通的朋友找你谈论你的困扰。
一个真正的朋友找你解决你的困扰。
一个普通的朋友对你的罗曼史感到好奇。
一个真正的朋友可以威胁你说出来。
一个普通的朋友在拜访时，像一个客人一样。
一个真正的朋友会打开冰箱自己拿东西。
一个普通的朋友在吵架后就认为友谊已经结束。
一个真正的朋友明白当你们还没打过架就不叫真正的友谊。
一个普通的朋友期望你永远在他身边陪他。
一个真正的朋友期望他能永远陪在你身旁 ！
一个真正的朋友有双肩让你的泪水湿尽。
一个普通的朋友不知道你父母的姓氏
一个真正的朋友有他们的电话在通讯簿上。
一个普通的朋友会带瓶葡萄酒参加你的派对。
一个真正的朋友会早点来帮你准备,为了帮你打扫而晚点走。
一个普通的朋友讨厌你在他睡了后打来。
一个真正的朋友会问为什么现在才打来。
一个普通的朋友找你谈论你的困扰。
一个真正的朋友找你解决你的困扰。
一个普通的朋友对你的罗曼史感到好奇。
一个真正的朋友可以威胁你说出来。
一个普通的朋友在拜访时，像一个客人一样。
一个真正的朋友会打开冰箱自己拿东西。
一个普通的朋友在吵架后就认为友谊已经结束。
一个真正的朋友明白当你们还没打过架就不叫真正的友谊。
一个普通的朋友期望你永远在他身边陪他。
一个真正的朋友期望他能永远陪在你身旁 ！
Monday, March 29, 2010
朋友当然不是玻璃做的
朋友当然不是玻璃做的，但是有许多人总是把朋友当做玻璃，小心翼翼，恐怕把朋友碰坏了。。。
所以有时候，明明对朋友很不满，却也不敢表达出来。害怕一旦表达了不满，就会发生冲突；一旦发生冲突，就会伤害感情；一旦伤害感情，就会失去这个朋友，为了一件小事失去一个朋友，太不值得了，于是就忍耐朋友的冒犯，然后，偷偷的在肚子里生气。。。
一个大学里的男孩子说，他的好朋友特不像话，这个朋友在大学两年，几乎从来不做功课，都是让他替他做；而且这个朋友还经常在大庭广众中，说不用担心，他会帮我的；他很希望这个朋友有一天能意识到不应该这样做。但是这个粗心的朋友却一点改变的迹象都没有。
“你是怎样对待他的这些行为的呢？”
“我能怎么样？我假装不在意。”
“那么他怎么知道你不高兴呢？”
“他应该知道呀？”
“你认为他有特异功能吗？知道你在想什么？既然你做出不在意的样子,他当以为你不在意；既然他以为你不在意，当然他也就不会改了。”
“我知道我应该表达自己的情绪，但是，我害怕他生气，害怕影响我们的友谊。虽然他有些不好的地方。为了这些事情失去一个朋友不值得。所以我就认了。”
之所以有这样的想法，是因为他们都对友谊有一种很美好的期待：希望朋友最好永远没有争吵，没有愤怒，永远互相理解。在他们的心目中，一旦出现了冲突就意味着友谊破灭。因而，他们只好回避冲突，结果反而让自己和对方之间都不愉快。
其实，并不是发生了冲突友谊就只好告终一条路。因为我们还有“和解”的技巧可用。友谊是一幅双方共同描绘的图画，当画出了什么问题，和解就好似我们手里的像皮或者刮刀，那么画错了一笔就意味着这幅画要作废。有了橡皮和刮刀，你的画就可以继续画下去。
为什么有些人把朋友当做玻璃一样，不敢去碰，最重要的原因，就是他们不会是用橡皮和刮刀，甚至他们不曾意识到有橡皮刮刀这类东西存在。他没的友谊就像玻璃，一旦破了，只能抛弃。所以他们只好小心翼翼，在这个过程中，自己被压抑着，怎么能感到快乐呢？
因此，和解是交友中的必须学习的技巧。如果你懂得如何和解，在交往中，你就有了更大的自由。你会敢于表达自己对朋友的意见，敢于坚持自己，敢于冒产生冲突的危险。因为你知道，即使友谊一时受到伤害，你也有办法消除这个后果，让友谊恢复到从前。
和解是非常简单的，它是僵持后你主动说的一句话，是你错之后送他一个拥抱，是一个友好的微笑，是一个小礼物...只要你们真的有友谊存在，和解就这样完成了。
不会和解的人，害怕表达对朋友的意见，结果纵容了朋友的缺点，这样维持的友谊是不牢靠的，总有一天会维持不下去。而恰恰是不怕冲突的人，及时把不满表达出来，通过交流解决了朋友间的不和谐，才会有真正长久的友谊。
毕竟，朋友不是玻璃做的，如果有一个朋友真的想玻璃一样，不许你碰一下，这样的朋友破了就破了吧。
所以有时候，明明对朋友很不满，却也不敢表达出来。害怕一旦表达了不满，就会发生冲突；一旦发生冲突，就会伤害感情；一旦伤害感情，就会失去这个朋友，为了一件小事失去一个朋友，太不值得了，于是就忍耐朋友的冒犯，然后，偷偷的在肚子里生气。。。
一个大学里的男孩子说，他的好朋友特不像话，这个朋友在大学两年，几乎从来不做功课，都是让他替他做；而且这个朋友还经常在大庭广众中，说不用担心，他会帮我的；他很希望这个朋友有一天能意识到不应该这样做。但是这个粗心的朋友却一点改变的迹象都没有。
“你是怎样对待他的这些行为的呢？”
“我能怎么样？我假装不在意。”
“那么他怎么知道你不高兴呢？”
“他应该知道呀？”
“你认为他有特异功能吗？知道你在想什么？既然你做出不在意的样子,他当以为你不在意；既然他以为你不在意，当然他也就不会改了。”
“我知道我应该表达自己的情绪，但是，我害怕他生气，害怕影响我们的友谊。虽然他有些不好的地方。为了这些事情失去一个朋友不值得。所以我就认了。”
之所以有这样的想法，是因为他们都对友谊有一种很美好的期待：希望朋友最好永远没有争吵，没有愤怒，永远互相理解。在他们的心目中，一旦出现了冲突就意味着友谊破灭。因而，他们只好回避冲突，结果反而让自己和对方之间都不愉快。
其实，并不是发生了冲突友谊就只好告终一条路。因为我们还有“和解”的技巧可用。友谊是一幅双方共同描绘的图画，当画出了什么问题，和解就好似我们手里的像皮或者刮刀，那么画错了一笔就意味着这幅画要作废。有了橡皮和刮刀，你的画就可以继续画下去。
为什么有些人把朋友当做玻璃一样，不敢去碰，最重要的原因，就是他们不会是用橡皮和刮刀，甚至他们不曾意识到有橡皮刮刀这类东西存在。他没的友谊就像玻璃，一旦破了，只能抛弃。所以他们只好小心翼翼，在这个过程中，自己被压抑着，怎么能感到快乐呢？
因此，和解是交友中的必须学习的技巧。如果你懂得如何和解，在交往中，你就有了更大的自由。你会敢于表达自己对朋友的意见，敢于坚持自己，敢于冒产生冲突的危险。因为你知道，即使友谊一时受到伤害，你也有办法消除这个后果，让友谊恢复到从前。
和解是非常简单的，它是僵持后你主动说的一句话，是你错之后送他一个拥抱，是一个友好的微笑，是一个小礼物...只要你们真的有友谊存在，和解就这样完成了。
不会和解的人，害怕表达对朋友的意见，结果纵容了朋友的缺点，这样维持的友谊是不牢靠的，总有一天会维持不下去。而恰恰是不怕冲突的人，及时把不满表达出来，通过交流解决了朋友间的不和谐，才会有真正长久的友谊。
毕竟，朋友不是玻璃做的，如果有一个朋友真的想玻璃一样，不许你碰一下，这样的朋友破了就破了吧。
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
give up o continue gv support??
haiz...2day nid 2 submit my assignment of tamadun islam lo..
yesterday nite ..didn't sleeo whole day
juz waiting my son's work
but unfortunately he didn't send 2 me..
finally i done it for him..
he juz send me a messages : ah ba ..sry a ..i juz done in half way..
can u forgive me..
i didn't reply his messages..
juz ignore him..
i really dun knw what can i do for them...
1st i aldy give up 2 him le....>>khuan chong
i dun wan what can i say ...
i never say that the competition is not a good choice..
since ur education o study also cannot settle down ...
where got time let u do another thing ne...
is not i wan 2 scold u ...but u had changed...
not like b4 le...do u notice that....
may b u wont....bt i notive that long long time ago le
i never care u choose that way..
but anywhere can u focus in what u should do now...
may b u will think i am noise o stupid....o too care u ...very over
i knw v juz friends like brother...
but not really brother ....not related v u some more
i let u be important ppl in my life
since u wan do like that ..i also accepted u ...
v r not so friendly like b4 ..do u notice that...
last time ...do u still remember how v fun v each other...
may b this few week ....juz can let us continue our fun n other
after that i think v will separated .....our group also break le
if u really wan continue like that...i juz can say ....sorry 2 u ....
i dun knw what can i do for u again le...
2nd is xai xuan...my oldest son....
u also ...i dun knw what can i help u...
scold also scold b4.....angry also angry b4.....
listen also listen b4.....mention also mention b4.....
but u still keep like that ..
u skip class....i cannot say what ...because i also always skip class...
but unless i hv copy the note ...knw what the teacher teach...
but u always stay at home ...what kind of thing so important ...can let u stay at home whole day
even u always sleep ...u say u very tired....
but do u knw that what u done in whole day...
play game + facebook + dota + msn + hp....
always let me worry about u only....
i dun knw how many days ..i can keep help u ...
because v going 2 finish our diploma le...
for the assignment of tamadun ....
i really angry ....1st time i ask how u done ...
u told me u forgot jor...ok nvm ...i gv u a part only nia...
juz write around 300-400 words ...from 2pm ...
until 2moro ...start class...u also cannot done for me ...
u knw u very disappointed 2 me lo ....
butt anywhere i aldy help u done it le....
what can i scold now....i can't
i waiting u whole day ...never sleep at all....
how ???? u tell me how ????
i rally dun knw le......SAD!!!
haiz..i knw i am not who u r ....
may at least i care about u 2 guy in my life....
but u 2 guy always make disappointed 2 me ..
what can i say ?????
what respond i wanna show 2 u ?????
angry >>> no
scold >>> no
ignore >>> no
trouble >>> no
sad <<< yes
quiet <<< yes
give up <<< yes
disappointed <<< yes
yesterday nite ..didn't sleeo whole day
juz waiting my son's work
but unfortunately he didn't send 2 me..
finally i done it for him..
he juz send me a messages : ah ba ..sry a ..i juz done in half way..
can u forgive me..
i didn't reply his messages..
juz ignore him..
i really dun knw what can i do for them...
1st i aldy give up 2 him le....>>khuan chong
i dun wan what can i say ...
i never say that the competition is not a good choice..
since ur education o study also cannot settle down ...
where got time let u do another thing ne...
is not i wan 2 scold u ...but u had changed...
not like b4 le...do u notice that....
may b u wont....bt i notive that long long time ago le
i never care u choose that way..
but anywhere can u focus in what u should do now...
may b u will think i am noise o stupid....o too care u ...very over
i knw v juz friends like brother...
but not really brother ....not related v u some more
i let u be important ppl in my life
since u wan do like that ..i also accepted u ...
v r not so friendly like b4 ..do u notice that...
last time ...do u still remember how v fun v each other...
may b this few week ....juz can let us continue our fun n other
after that i think v will separated .....our group also break le
if u really wan continue like that...i juz can say ....sorry 2 u ....
i dun knw what can i do for u again le...
2nd is xai xuan...my oldest son....
u also ...i dun knw what can i help u...
scold also scold b4.....angry also angry b4.....
listen also listen b4.....mention also mention b4.....
but u still keep like that ..
u skip class....i cannot say what ...because i also always skip class...
but unless i hv copy the note ...knw what the teacher teach...
but u always stay at home ...what kind of thing so important ...can let u stay at home whole day
even u always sleep ...u say u very tired....
but do u knw that what u done in whole day...
play game + facebook + dota + msn + hp....
always let me worry about u only....
i dun knw how many days ..i can keep help u ...
because v going 2 finish our diploma le...
for the assignment of tamadun ....
i really angry ....1st time i ask how u done ...
u told me u forgot jor...ok nvm ...i gv u a part only nia...
juz write around 300-400 words ...from 2pm ...
until 2moro ...start class...u also cannot done for me ...
u knw u very disappointed 2 me lo ....
butt anywhere i aldy help u done it le....
what can i scold now....i can't
i waiting u whole day ...never sleep at all....
how ???? u tell me how ????
i rally dun knw le......SAD!!!
haiz..i knw i am not who u r ....
may at least i care about u 2 guy in my life....
but u 2 guy always make disappointed 2 me ..
what can i say ?????
what respond i wanna show 2 u ?????
angry >>> no
scold >>> no
ignore >>> no
trouble >>> no
sad <<< yes
quiet <<< yes
give up <<< yes
disappointed <<< yes
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
long time did't meet him le
i notice that i aldy hv few week
o few days didn't saw him ...
may be this is what the god done for me ..
in my mind ....i feel trouble n confuse at all
i dun knw how 2 face v him ...
may b i will hit him when i meet v him...
TROUBLE + PRESSURE = CONFUSE
ANGRY + CAN'T CONTROL = KILLING PPL
SMOKING + PRESSURE = RELAX
TROUBLE + CAN'T CONTROL = DANGEROUS
ANGRY + PRESSURE = TROUBLE
CONFUSE + RELAX = SMOKING
KILLING PPL + DANGEROUS = CAN'T CONTROL .....
o few days didn't saw him ...
may be this is what the god done for me ..
in my mind ....i feel trouble n confuse at all
i dun knw how 2 face v him ...
may b i will hit him when i meet v him...
TROUBLE + PRESSURE = CONFUSE
ANGRY + CAN'T CONTROL = KILLING PPL
SMOKING + PRESSURE = RELAX
TROUBLE + CAN'T CONTROL = DANGEROUS
ANGRY + PRESSURE = TROUBLE
CONFUSE + RELAX = SMOKING
KILLING PPL + DANGEROUS = CAN'T CONTROL .....
Lazy attend the class
since now aldy week 4 le ...
juz finish my esei ..
bt actually i did't attend all the class...
because i am lazy ..not i am clever
i feel that class very boring
n nid 2 wake up so early
10am o 9am....may b for others will not so early
but for me ..i feel so early ...n very hard 2 wake up
ntg force me 2 attend the class...
so i always blur in the tutorial class...
some time i knw how 2 do ...
actually i juz lucky as i understand what teacher want..
so YY a ....x nid so surprise ...when i done my question on the board..
actually i juz simply simply do 1....
because some part v hv learn b4...
n this subject almost same v all the math subject as v learn b4
so u dun worry be happy ...
i knw what happen r u ....u juz dun understand at all...
bt at least u hv go attend the class....for me ....lazy only
even xx didn't attend the class....i cannot say anything..
because i also same v him ..x attend the class...
i really dun knw how 2 help them aldy ..
because u lazy ...since i wan help u ....also cannot do everything...
for now v juz got 3 week ..wanna go thought....
do u feel scare n worry abt it...
i c u never n never..
haiz bor mood at all...
still taking other ppl ....
never think by myself...
homework dun wan do ....class lazy attend ..
since i am a problem guy also ...
not ppl can help me ...juz thinking by myself...
for this few day ....i very easy angry ..
i also dun knw y .....may b some thing happen suddenly 2 me...
i can't accept in that time.....
but anyway i can find some way 2 release my pressure...
juz finish my esei ..
bt actually i did't attend all the class...
because i am lazy ..not i am clever
i feel that class very boring
n nid 2 wake up so early
10am o 9am....may b for others will not so early
but for me ..i feel so early ...n very hard 2 wake up
ntg force me 2 attend the class...
so i always blur in the tutorial class...
some time i knw how 2 do ...
actually i juz lucky as i understand what teacher want..
so YY a ....x nid so surprise ...when i done my question on the board..
actually i juz simply simply do 1....
because some part v hv learn b4...
n this subject almost same v all the math subject as v learn b4
so u dun worry be happy ...
i knw what happen r u ....u juz dun understand at all...
bt at least u hv go attend the class....for me ....lazy only
even xx didn't attend the class....i cannot say anything..
because i also same v him ..x attend the class...
i really dun knw how 2 help them aldy ..
because u lazy ...since i wan help u ....also cannot do everything...
for now v juz got 3 week ..wanna go thought....
do u feel scare n worry abt it...
i c u never n never..
haiz bor mood at all...
still taking other ppl ....
never think by myself...
homework dun wan do ....class lazy attend ..
since i am a problem guy also ...
not ppl can help me ...juz thinking by myself...
for this few day ....i very easy angry ..
i also dun knw y .....may b some thing happen suddenly 2 me...
i can't accept in that time.....
but anyway i can find some way 2 release my pressure...
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